3 Keys To Doing Great Approaches

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How many women did you approach this week?? No, not your friends girlfriend or a coworker...Real women, new women someone you have never met before but would die to go over and talk to and get her number and a date.

If you don't do it, it don't get DONE!

Yeah, I know you had all kinds of excuses running through your mind. That is your own brain stopping you. Keeping you in your comfort zone. Avoiding any possibility of pain.

If you keep letting that stop you, you will never meet enough women to get good at approaches.

TRY these three KEYS NEXT TIME!

They are really good at starting your approach, IF you DO THEM...

1. Don't worry about being Perfect

If you wait til you know exactly what to do and what to say, you will be waiting a long, long time and not meeting anyone. You do not have to be perfect! You have to DO SOMETHING, anything is better than nothing. It is how you learn to be good.

You can't get every girl you want...nobody can.

She might be having a bad day, she might be hating men at that moment. You don't know, but most times it wont be what you did that ended the interaction.

The point is when you see someone you want to meet, go up and start talking to her. She doesn't want perfect, that can be player faked. If you make a few mistakes and carry on like it doesn't matter, she is actually thinking you might be a real guy.

Do it anyway, until you master approaches. They always give a guy a queazy feeling, always. The masters don't let it stop them, they use it like a ride on a roller coaster. Exhiliration for free.

2. What About Giving Compliments?

Let me ask you this..Do women love hearing good stuff? Do women get all dressed up? Do women care what people think? Do women seek out good feelings?

Yes, yes, yes, and yes.

Giving ONE compliment that is genuine is a great way for almost any guy to get a girl talking. Just don't keep giving her compliments over and over and acting too EAGER. She is a woman and women love drama and wondering. If you solve the puzzle by fawning, she knows she can have you and WONT want you. Women want what they can't have and will work to get you if she digs you at all. Competition, Drama, mystery! They love that crap. Keep her guessing, you are a little interested but not decided yet.

3. Eye Contact!

Next time you go out anywhere, do this little experiment..

When you see a woman, look at her eyes and hold eye contact until she sees you. Now, DON"T LOOK AWAY. If you look away you lose. Wait til she looks away first. Just gaze into her eyes with a bit of a smile. And Think "You Are A Beautiful Woman"

Try that out and see if women don't start moving towards you instead of away. Keep it fun for her and see what happens. The first time I tried this in a mall, every single woman smiled back and most of them came over and said HI.

Women love Eye Contact.

Bonus Key Tip:

When you shake her hand, hold on lightly while talking until she pulls her hand back. Then tease her about being shy.

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