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How To Be Attractive

How To Be Attractive

Guys always wonder about what women want.  They don't really get attraction itself.  How does attraction work? What is attractive to a woman?  You have to remember bottom line, humans have built in mechanisms for keeping the human species reproducing.  We are talking evolution and how we came to be.

This is built in stuff that isn't really conscious behavior.   Most of attraction is just how you are set up.

How long does it take after you spot a woman to decide if she is attractive to you?  Seconds.  Practically instantly.

Same goes for women.  They see a guy and instantly make an initial decision.  Sure it could change later but the moment she sees someone she makes this split second decision and will start to feel attraction or not.

She may feel like she is deciding this rationally.  But 90% of this initial attraction is totally going on in the subconcious mind.  Based on her own genes and brain wiring.  She is looking for a guy like this.   Many different types of guy will trigger her own attraction mechanism.  It isn't even about what you look like.

Women have a powerful brain and see a lot of things immediately.  Things guys don't even see themselves.

What kind of things are attractive to women?

How you move.  How you speak. What's your smile like. Do you appear strong?Masculine?Can get things done?Confident?  Do you know how to dress stylish. Do others know you. Are you friendly.

With attraction.  This is all a split second decision and it is automatic.  Just like when you see a girl and FEEL attraction instantly for certain types of women.  But not for others.

Consider this:  think about how likely it is for you to change your mind after seeing a woman and deciding she is not attractive.  It is a very strong feeling and once you think she is not attractive, very doubtful you would change your mind.

It's the same thing for women.  So don't take it personally if a woman doesn't think you are attractive.  She is following her hard wiring just like you.  Move on and find a woman who is attracted to you.

Believe me trying to force her to find you attractive is a very painful and hardly ever successful plan.

Look your best and be your most attractive at all times and keep meeting more women.  All your ancestors were able to find mates that did find them attractive so your match is out there.

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