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How to use Speed Dating to Meet More Women

What is so great about speed dating? Where else can you meet 10 to 30 women in 2 hours? And actually sit down and talk to them. At the very least you will get comfortable with women very fast.

 

 

Events like this are a helpful tool for any man to meet women and get used to relating to women in the shortest amount of time. Which is probably a goal of yours, no? 10 to 30 new women in one night, it doesn't get any better than that. Because really isn't your main problem the fact that you (A) Don't meet enough women and (B) Don't know what to say or how to meet a woman on the street?

 

Speed Dating can solve both problems instantly. You practice talking to women and getting comfortable with them at the same time. No rejections, they let you sit and talk to them. It is only about 8 minutes per woman but you will be able to really get used to the first 8 minutes with a new woman, which I am sure you know by now is always the first hurdle when you meet a woman.

 

You really need to seriously do this. It is incredibly helpful to any man.

What is Speed Dating exactly:

 

They have speed dating events in most large cities. Normally, they will reserve a popular club or restaurant for the event.

They are typically about 2 hours long. The time allowed per date will depend on how many people are showing up.

A normal speed date is 5 to 8 minutes. Just enough time to show off your personality and class.

You sit down with the first woman and they start the clock. After 8 minutes, you say goodbye and move to the next table.

Each person has a form that they fill out between dates with a checkbox for yea or nay.

After the event the forms are collected and if she said yea and you said yea about her, you will be notified so you can get in contact again.

 

This is a really simple but effective way to meet new women and get needed dating experience. These events are not rare, they usually have a couple a month in a city near you.

 

A great tip is to try speed dating in another city. You wont know anyone and it removes a lot of stress. This way it is definitely just for fun and learning. So why not try speed dating in Las Vegas or L.A. Make a vacation around it. It will let you tell the women you are in town on business for a few days and thought you would check out this event. Highly recommended. Women behave differently when they know you are leaving town in a few days.

 

Here are a few tips on speed dating:

 

• Make sure you look good- dress, hygiene and your body language
• Have fun the whole event- be playful and interesting - calm and relaxed is key.
• Smile- look happy to be there and just interested in finding out more about the ladies
• Don't slouch or cross your arms and no tapping fingers nervously. Keep your hands on the table except for a few gestures when you get involved in an interesting topic.
• Careful how much you drink
• Focus on the other person and really try to keep eye contact without staring.
• Ask some good and unique questions that will make her think.
• When you get their contact info, follow up right away and set up another fun date.

On a typical night you could easily have 6 matches to contact. Does it get any easier or less stressful?

Here are some great questions to ask your dates:

• What was your favorite gift you ever got?
• If you could do any job in the world, which one would you do for free?
• What do you want to be doing in five years?
• Where would you go first if you won the lottery?
• What parts of your job do you love the most?
• Would you rather fly in a plane, ride on a train or dance in the rain?
• Which superpower would you want to have? Invisibility, xray vision or flying around the globe in 30 seconds.

These are the type of questions that will make a woman think about in order to give a great answer. They allow you to branch off into other topics. You don't want to do a bunch of one word answer questions. Another thing to do is instead of a question word it as a statement. "You look like you would ________" "That looks like ______".

 

As you have seen Speed Dating is an excellent way to build your social skills rapidly. Even if you don't meet anyone this way, you will grow socially in leaps and bounds. Consider looking for events in your area. Try fastdater.com, fastlife.com or 8minutedating.com.