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Good Online Dating Emails

Good Online Dating Emails

Using email to meet women online is the key to success. It is the make or break, if your emails suck you will not get women to even look at your profile. Spend some time learning how to write interesting and fun emails. Women will respond to them and even if your profile sucks, you still have a chance if you can peak her interest enough to have to write back.

Don't waste time with winks, send her a well thought out email. You can use a template but the details must be unique to her profile. It doesn't have to be a mile long, just a couple paragraphs will work fine. Be interesting and sound like you offer at least a fun time. Don't mention sex in the email. She gets tons of those already.

Women can get laid anytime, so leading with sex is a total turnoff, as is bragging.

One paragraph that intrigues her and gets her interest is fine. Mention something she talks about in her profile. You are not in love with her from looking at her photo. This is just getting to know her and find out about her life. Ask a question but don't make it 20 questions.

Talk about what you are looking for and the things you love to do. If you love cooking, mention it but also mention you spent all morning working on your car so you could get to work. Real life stories appeal to women, they love a little drama and emotion. Tell her how much something freaked you out. But remember to show how you overcame a problem.

Don't tell her everything, you want her to want to answer you to find out something more.

Keep it low pressure and just fun. If you can slip in a joke that is always good to make her laugh. Use some humor, and tease her about something in her profile or photo.

This first email is just showing you found her interesting enough to sit down and write her. But you are still not sure about her. If you can get her qualifying herself, she wont be thinking about qualifying you.

Start some stories but don't finish them. Make her ask about it. It is good to mention relatives and friends in your emails. So she can get a peek at your life.

A good first email gets the ball rolling. Spend some time on it. Save the emails that seem to give good results. You will need to test subject lines, emails and your photos to find the match that works almost everytime. And then my friend you are in the action.

Getting the first date is easy after that. You will have tons of dates available each and every week. The beauty of this is you are now a guy with multiple women who like you.

It makes you feel better, and other women will notice something different about you.

Once you get to the second email, just delve deeper into what you have learned she likes. Always remember the goal is to meet her as soon as possible. Don't get hooked into a lengthy email back and forth. Offer your phone number and ask for hers in each email after the first response. The goal is to set up a quick little meeting or talk to her on the phone within 2 or 3 days.

Don't waste time. Move on fast, there are hundreds of candidates for your time and money. Don't set up an expensive first date either, you still don't know what she actually looks like.


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