Attracting Women Today Blog

Nov 11, Online Pickup Secrets

Tue, 11 Nov 2008 21:45:43 GMT

A guide for online dating with tips for picking up women.

Sep 9, Flirting Comebacks To Give Women

Tue, 09 Sep 2008 05:21:29 GMT

What should you do when a woman starts flirting back with her own comebacks that make you stop and think and wonder what to say next. You have to remember this is play for women, she has been flirting with guys all her life. She has experience on you, I bet she gets hit on 3 or 4 times a day even if she isn't a model. So she has an advantage. Just keep in mind this is not serious yet, you two are just playing with words in a give and take. You really don't want to beat her and make her speechless. Just keep it fun and make her laugh. Women love fun and games so work with what she gives you and make it funny. The very best thing is to have 4 or 5 snappy funny possible comebacks ready at all times. Also, take command of the conversation again by changing the subject and branch off into a little fun story. You can also tell her to stop trying to pick you up! See how you can turn around something she said and make it funny. Tease her lightly about something. Flirting is just back and forth verbal play. As long as she is smiling and having fun it doesn't really matter what you say.

Aug 6, Free Dating Articles with great tips for men

Wed, 06 Aug 2008 21:23:49 GMT

Some excellent free dating articles to help your success with women today.

Aug 6, Dealing With Divorce and Separation- Divorce Tips For Men

Wed, 06 Aug 2008 21:23:03 GMT

How to start dating again after a divorce. Divorce tips for men and how to start over after divorce.

Aug 6, 10 Super Tips For Divorced Men

Wed, 06 Aug 2008 21:22:27 GMT

Divorce tips for men and how to start over after divorce. Learn how to recover from divorce

Aug 6, 5 Tips For Men Getting Over Divorce

Wed, 06 Aug 2008 21:21:52 GMT

Divorce tips for men and how to start over after divorce.

Jul 18, Part Two of Dating Course First Things First

Fri, 18 Jul 2008 22:54:49 GMT

How to start improving your dating success with women.

Jul 18, Dating Course- What Do Women Want and How to Practice

Fri, 18 Jul 2008 22:54:00 GMT

How to practice dating and learn what women want in a man. A free dating course.

Jul 18, How to Get Second Dates

Fri, 18 Jul 2008 22:53:18 GMT

The course continues with How to get and set up great second dates. A free dating course.

Jul 18, 30 day Dating cheat sheet

Fri, 18 Jul 2008 22:51:39 GMT

A step by step 30 day dating life plan to get more girls in your life. A free dating course.

Jul 18, Chapter 6 - the course continues with Flirting Tips

Fri, 18 Jul 2008 22:50:52 GMT

How to practice flirting and learn what women want in a man. A free dating course.

Jul 18, Chapter 8 - Getting a Date Easy

Fri, 18 Jul 2008 22:50:07 GMT

The course continues with dating help and first date advice. A free dating course.

Jul 18, Speed Dating Tips

Fri, 18 Jul 2008 22:49:22 GMT

Learn speed dating tips to improve your success.

Jul 18, Online Dating Tips

Fri, 18 Jul 2008 22:48:32 GMT

A guide for online dating with tips for succeeding with women.

Jul 18, Privacy Policy for Attracting Women Today.com

Fri, 18 Jul 2008 22:47:41 GMT

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Jul 18, Free Dating Course - Quadruple Your Dating Success

Fri, 18 Jul 2008 22:46:42 GMT

A free guide to improve your dating success. Step by step advice that works. 30 days step by step plan of attack.

Jul 18, Flirting Tips

Fri, 18 Jul 2008 22:45:55 GMT

A collection of flirting tips to get you started.

Jul 18, Dating Tips

Fri, 18 Jul 2008 22:45:08 GMT

Seven dating tips that will improve your dating success immediately.

Jul 18, Dating Frequently Asked Questions

Fri, 18 Jul 2008 22:44:21 GMT

A list of popular dating FAQs, frequently asked questions by guys.

Jul 18, Body Language Tips for men

Fri, 18 Jul 2008 22:43:32 GMT

How to improve your body language and flirting skills for meeting women.

Jul 18, Ask A Dating Question

Fri, 18 Jul 2008 22:36:52 GMT

Get an answer to your dating questions here.

Jul 3, Fourth of July is the Time To Meet Women

Thu, 03 Jul 2008 21:36:54 GMT

Get out there and socialize. Today make a list of all the events and parties you can find. Grab one of your buddies and hit a few of them. Believe me, when women celebrate the holidays they want to have fun. Just start talking to them about the holiday, the event or what they are doing next. Simple stuff, just go have fun and don't get too bombed. Talk to lots of women for just a few minutes, move around so they see you laughing with other women. They watch for this stuff, they want to get you before another girl gets you. It is a game for them, they will want you if other women want you. Celebrate the holidays out in social gatherings. In fact, it is always a good idea to set up your own parties so you always have something to invite a girl to!!! Have a blast and get talking to women, if you don't say anything. Someone else will! Be a man and put fear aside and just do it. If you do this regularly, it gets easier and you will succeed faster.

May 24, Free Players Handbook for Dating More Women

Sat, 24 May 2008 00:02:07 GMT

How to start approaching more women tips. 3 Keys to Approaches.

May 1, Guide To Attracting Women Today

Thu, 01 May 2008 19:18:36 GMT

Advice and tips for attracting women today and talking to women. Simple tips to meet more women and increase attraction.

Apr 16, 3 Keys to Approaching Women

Wed, 16 Apr 2008 19:23:04 GMT

How to start approaching more women tips. 3 Keys to Approaches.

Apr 7, Date Coaching For Guys

Mon, 07 Apr 2008 04:41:42 GMT

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Feb 21, Are you calling her too much or not enough??

Thu, 21 Feb 2008 20:04:17 GMT

You will find in your dating experience a perfectly good relationship slowly deteriorating if you don't call your girl enough. They require just the right amount of attention from you and each woman is a little different in this aspect. So make sure you are paying attention to her reactions. You don't want to call every day in the beginning, lets get that straight first. But after a date or two, you need to show some interest. If she is attractive, she gets hit on every day. Waiting 4 days or longer is not earning you points, she will assume you are a lost cause and move on. They really do totally forget about you when they are done. Not like us, pining away for months. When it is over, it was probably over before she stopped answering your calls. She has moved on, there is always a new guy waiting around the corner to put the moves on. So once you get a girls attention, keep it. Call her every few days, don't say its her turn to call. Many women wont call, but they will be sitting by the phone waiting for you to. And if you don't, it is taken as you are just not into her. Keep her attention and keep asking her to go do fun things. After a few dates, she will probably start calling you more often. And you can call her every 2 days to chat, don't ask for a date in every call. Build a relationship and keep progressing. Waiting 4 to 7 days is too long and calling every day is too much in the early stages. Believe me when she is really into you she will be calling you a lot. If you had a good time on a date, a call the next day to chat for 5 minutes is a nice touch, just don't ask for another date. Let her wait another day or two and then ask. Mystery, push-pull keep her guessing.

Jan 23, Important Online Dating Tips for Starters

Wed, 23 Jan 2008 23:47:16 GMT

Important Online Dating Tips for Starters.

Jan 23, Good Online Dating Emails

Wed, 23 Jan 2008 23:46:42 GMT

Simple tips to writing good online dating emails. How to use them and succeed..

Jan 23, Free Online Dating Services can lead to dates

Wed, 23 Jan 2008 23:46:06 GMT

Free Online Dating Services can lead to dates and more. How to use them and succeed..

Jan 23, Social Proof and Dating More Women

Wed, 23 Jan 2008 05:25:58 GMT

Men seem to forget the one key to being more attractive to women. This is so important. You must be attracting other women or your girl will not stay with you. I mean forever, you should be getting in trouble for flirting with other women. If no other woman wants you, she sure doesn't want to be the only one. Make sure to get several women you can hang out with just as friends. It makes you look a million times better than a guy standing around alone. Any woman who sees you laughing and having fun with a couple of women is going to be wondering about you. She sees other women like you. It is a major positive sign. That is why guys have so much trouble starting out dating, without proof you are a good guy, you start out low on the totem pole. So be sure to hang out with some women and go out and laugh and have fun. Date multiple women at any one time as this is social proof as well. If you have no one and are always available, you are not the big catch she is looking for. So keep or at least appear busy, don't call her everyday and don't come running as soon as she calls. If she asks what you are doing, always have some tentative plans. Make them up if you have to. Don't be too available, make her work a little to spend time with you and make sure she knows you know other women.

Jan 18, Advice for Short Men

Fri, 18 Jan 2008 00:16:30 GMT

I know many guys have a really hard time approaching and even dating attractive women for one big reason. They are shorter than average. It is definitely true that taller guys get bonus points for a lot of women. But you have to remember that you can only change what you can change. And your height is unchangeable. Dating women isn't easy for most guys as it is so you have to first just accept yourself the way you are. If you mope around and are negative, that isn't going to be attractive at all to women. You must come to grips with your height and not make it an issue. Believe me a lot of women would have gone out with you if you had asked them. You know there were opportunities. So that is proof right there, that your height didn't matter to them. It is your own negative thoughts that hold you back. If you have lots of confidence and stand up tall in the face of adversity. That is an attractive attribute that will overcome bad looks, low money and being short. You are your own worst enemy with your negative thoughts. Think positive and positive will come. Do some women not like dating shorter guys, absolutely. It is a cultural/society thing, just like women with tiny breasts or tall women have. You will have a smaller percentage of women who will go for you. Some women wont like you, and some will. You can't have every woman. So focus on the ones who return interest. Believe me, once you get a few women interested and start having a love life. Other more attractive women will be taking another look at you. The key is to be confident, have your life in order, and have a game plan for where you are going in the next 5 years. Negative thoughts only hurt you. A lot of short guys have really attractive wives who are taller than them. It is not an end of the world issue, unless you let it bother you. Never let anyone see what they say has any effect on you. You are a strong man with many great attributes. While dating, concentrate on finding out more about your date. Really listen to what she is saying vs. thinking in your head any negative possibilities. Just concentrate on making her feel good around you. Be assertive at all times and take the lead. Don't be a weak insecure guy. Be a happy and positive guy who doesn't worry about what others think. Stay in the moment and enjoy it. Any short guy can date attractive women, if you stop thinking about it and do what needs to be done. If she doesn't like you, it is her loss. There are millions more where she came from and a new crop of 21 year olds every single year. Click the link below for some excellent tips on Approaching Beautiful Women.

Jan 10, Attracting Ladies with your Attitude

Thu, 10 Jan 2008 23:11:48 GMT

Picking up and attracting ladies is not a science. It is based on how a womans brain works after millions of years of evolution. There are keys that a successful ladies man must show off to a woman. You have to behave like a ladies man to capture a womans interest in dating you. There are several critical things you need to make you stand out. Here are a few: An air of irrational confidence. You need to act like you have everything under control in your life. And when things go bad, it doesn't even effect you. There can be no insecurity or doubts. Be sure of yourself. Hold your head high and keep your eyes up. Act relaxed and comfortable. You believe in yourself and know how to get what you want. Be positive- Keep all negativity out of you speech and always be up and fun to be around. She has enough of her own problems, you are her source of fun and excitement. Be a leader- Always have a plan and know what and where you are leading her to. If you have no plan, you are in trouble. Women do not want to make all the decisions and have to worry about things. You lead her on what to talk about, where you should go next and whats going to happen. She can always say no. But you need to offer up ideas. A woman is programmed not to lead a guy. She is looking for a strong guy. She will not help you sleep with her. You need to be advancing down the steps needed to get where you want to go. You do the first approach, first conversation, first touch, make her laugh, ask for the date, call her on the phone. You First buddy, she wont do it.

Jan 4, Dating Body Language

Fri, 04 Jan 2008 23:25:34 GMT

When approaching women, body language will make you or break you. Maintain calm, cool and smooth. You must appear to be confident and easy going, just out to have fun. Don't rush up and surprise her, she likes when friends do that. Not when a strange guy does it. Stay cool, you just happened to be next to her and noticed something special about her. Try to get prior eye contact with her, you will get a better result. It is almost like bonus points. If she sees you and you come over and talk right away, it shows balls. Keep your head up and eyes off the floor. You are focused on what is going on and where you are going. When you see a woman, approach right away and be direct. Just make sure you get her to laugh and feel good. Don't try to jump into a big connection with her. Instead vibe and get a feel for her and her group. Use your opener and get her talking and having a good time. No pressure, you are just checking her out to see if you even want to stick around and talk. Body language is really 3 things: 1. Good solid eye contact 2. Move smooth and don't be nervously fidgeting. Keep your hands down at your sides, carry your drink like you are in your living room. Don't hide behind it. 3. Stay cool and relaxed. Head held high and chest should be forced up and out a little. Always know where you are going and what you are going to do next. Move like a confident man who has no worries. And make sure you are lightly touching her in safe areas- shoulder, lower arm or side of leg. Try to move her around physically just a little. Get her involved.

Jan 3, How to start Dating Again

Thu, 03 Jan 2008 23:42:19 GMT

If you have been avoiding dating life because of circumstances (divorce,shyness, depression) It is time to get off your butt and get out there. The only thing that is going to really get you back in the dating game is to get out of the house and start being social again. Nobody else can do it for you. You have to do it or it will not happen. So look for things to do outside at least 3 nights a week. Make plans and go out anyway. If you look happy and are having fun, no one else knows you are actually a little depressed. Fake it. Just go out with no agenda other than being social and talking to people. Forget about your problems and get them talking about themselves. One thing always gets people happy, and talking about what they want to talk about is great. Be interested in what they are saying and just grab one of their topics and keep it going. See if you can make them happy and feeling good. If you focus on that, you will forget all about yourself. Don't pressure yourself to ask anyone out. Just get comfortable talking to everyone. Read up and take some notes on current events so you will always have something to talk about. And you don't have to talk to them for 30 minutes, you are free to leave after just a few minutes. Every night you go out, try to talk to at least 3 new women. That is nine a week and if you do that for 3 weeks, you are bound to find someone you hit it off with. Some keys: You lead the conversation You lead approaching You lead to asking for a future get together. Don't wait for them, you start. Just like the telephone, approaching is your job. Don't expect anyone to call you. Be proactive and persistent.

Jan 1, Its the New Year!

Tue, 01 Jan 2008 20:15:53 GMT

If you are still struggling to figure out women, keep the faith. The past is gone, you have the future and it can be different. You can meet and date women and get them to fall for you. Just learn a few simple techniques and get out there and practice. Practice dating is the only way you get better. If you want to get good at talking to women, you have to do it and mess up a bunch first. That is the only way your brain will learn new habits and you will see what works and what doesn't work with women. They want certain things from you and your attitude is the most important. If you learn to be confident and easy going and most importantly fun, they can't help but like you. NO matter what you look like. Looks carry only so much weight with a woman. How speak to her and how you move through the world is what will ultimately make her choose you. Women say no for a variety of reasons, don't take it personal. Be a little persistent and ask her again later. You have to lead in any dating relationship. Keep your composure and maintain your fun and happy body language. If she says no, it is no big deal. If you make her think you think it is a big deal, you lose points. Get outside and start talking to more women. You could have a girlfriend by Valentines day, just get out there and be a fun guy who brings some fun and excitement to her. Be interesting, fun and you have to ask and make all the phone calls. She wont.

Dec 28, Flirting on New Years Eve!

Fri, 28 Dec 2007 18:43:48 GMT

Make sure you get out there on New Years Eve. Women are out there to meet guys and talk to them. It is the biggest holiday of the year for them, they let loose like no other day. This is one night that the rules are looked over. Be flirty with every attractive woman you see. Talk to them and make them laugh. Practice showing strong eye contact and walking like you have plans and are really just having a fun time. No agenda, no creepy pushing too hard but you must push a little. If you can get her to smile and giggle, keep it going. Tease her and her friends, have 2 good stories you can tell a woman and use them on as many women as you can. Try to stay at one large party versus a few small parties. Stick around and focus on one woman at a time. Get her talking about herself and find a connection between the two of you. Next, you want to figure out how she is getting home and if she has an after party to go to. That will give you a chance to take her somewhere else after the fireworks or go where she is heading. Remember this is the one night, you can touch women all the time and even surprise them with an early kiss. One thing that will help you incredibly is this ebook the "Flirting Formula" It has super flirting tips that can get you ready to flirt on New Years Eve. It is a short ebook but it will show you exactly step by step how to flirt. Check it out today and you could be very happy on New Years Eve. Women love guys who can flirt with them and make them feel good. How to Flirt Fast

Dec 18, What to say to a woman

Tue, 18 Dec 2007 20:20:56 GMT

Trying to remember what to say or talk about with a woman is very difficult for guys starting out in dating. Try to have a few items memorized. You should practice them in front of a mirror. Only need a few to keep handy, you can use the same ones on many women. Simple things like an easy opener, some possible teases you could tell her and one good story. Keep a few lines that will get her talking. Then you just keep asking about the topics she brings up. Try to get in depth on a few topics. You can jump around, and come back to something later. Get her talking is the key, she should do most of the talking, women love to talk. How do you remember your words?? This is the best trick I have found: Put them into your cell phone notes! You can easily look down at your phone like you are reading a text message. Instant memory refresher! It is also a great place to keep notes on your meetings. Jot some notes down about each girl and how it went.

Dec 13, The Ultimate Dating Tip for men

Thu, 13 Dec 2007 18:52:30 GMT

If you have bad results dating women, it is often because you have a hard time relating to all attractive women. You have to love women to begin with. All the quirks, drama and games, just have fun with it. Don't get hung up on only one woman, until you have dated her for months. So think about how many woman friends you have. You need to have 2 or 3 women who you are friends with. And they should be similar to who you want to date. Just be friends with them, it will teach you how to talk and behave around women. If they like you, they will help you meet women. Be social and go out with them to just have a good time. Believe me, other women will think good of you if you are hanging around with women. Having women friends in you life is really important. You need to learn how to just be friends to women first. Just enjoy talking to them and being a friend. It will teach you all about what women want. So start being a friend to a few women. Just have fun with them. I know you want to date them, but if they don't want to date you, make them a friend. It will help you in the future. Once they know you are cool, they will introduce you to other women. Now make sure to be flirty and fun, you don't want them to think you are just another nice kiss ass guy. Make sure they know you are looking to meet women. Check out this site for some excellent advice on dating women. I bought it and found some real gems in it. Alpha Male Tips

Dec 9, Keys to attracting women and getting more dates

Sun, 09 Dec 2007 19:22:50 GMT

Lets talk about attracting women for a moment. How does the average guy get an attractive woman to feel like dating him? There are many traits that successful guys have to develop. You have seen the guys who just get women coming up to them. You can do the same thing, all it takes is practice. You know what to do, it is built into you. Society has just knocked it out of your system. Too much thinking about what others are going to think will paralyze you. You have this mating game inside, everyone of your ancestors passed on there genes successfully. Everyone of them. So you have the same powers in you. All you need to do is forget society and do what feels right. Copy others who are doing what you want to do. Your attitude and thinking is stopping you, nothing else. Key 1: Forget about what others think. You are not doing anything wrong when you pick up women. IT is Normal! To walk up and start talking to girls. It is your goal to meet, talk to and date women and then have a family. It is the purpose you are alive for. So don't feel any negative thoughts about what you are doing. Just start doing it. No matter what you look like, some girls will like you. Start looking for them everywhere you go and start talking to them. Everyone feels anxious the first time you start talking to an attractive woman. Do it anyway. It is fun practice to make the next time easier and work better. Getting started is your main problem, and you know it. Just go out in public 3 nights a week, where ladies hang out. Get comfortable socially, talk to everybody you can. It will only help you. Start today by reading my free online Dating Course here.