Chapter 6 - Flirting

If you want to get good with women, you must learn and practice the only thing that works. Flirting with women is how you build attraction. It is a special language that has been practiced for millions of years. It is genetic and part of being human. It is how men and women communicate sexually.

I know what your thinking, I don't want to stoop to that level. They should like me for who I am. Well I bet thinking like that has worked out pretty bad so far for you. This is how people relate and fall in love with each other. Some birds hop up in the air and make strange sounds to attract a mate. Men and women flirt, it is our mating call.

You must get good at it because only then will women see you as a potential lover instead of just a nice friendly guy. Now don't go crazy and start doing this seriously with co-workers. Your job can be in jeopardy. You still need a job to attract a great woman. So do your flirting away from work, there are millions of single ladies in the world. And they all want to flirt with guys.

Flirting is simply put, Teasing and having fun. It is done in a bubble though between you and her. Other people should barely notice it. There are lots of different levels. As you get more intimate and away from other people it should escalate. In front of others, just fun playful kidding and eye contact.

As you connect with her and move away into a one on one, you can up the ante. Flirting is going back and forth with role-playing scenarios and stories. Lead her into your world and make it a fun one.

Flirting isn't just what you say. 70% is eye contact, looks, and body language. How you say it and what your body is doing is the key part. Especially in a first meeting. She is watching you more than listening to the words.

Flirting gets her interested and makes her keep talking to you. It gives you a chance to show off who you are and what kind of guy you are. Flirt until she is attracted then you want to start having longer conversations to find out who she is and let her earn your attention. Don't flirt too long, 5 to 10 minutes should be plenty. Too much will annoy her. And gauge her reactions, if she isn't enjoying it, just stop and move on to someone else. Don't waste your time on a woman who is not interested.

Chapter Seven - Leading and being a Masculine Man

One concept that makes a man attractive to women is leading. Your role as the man is to lead the woman. Not control her but be leading the whole time. Leaders show strength, you are in control of yourself and decide what to do and when to do it.

You should always be the one leading. You go up and talk to her first, you decide what to do next, you pick the restaurant or movie. Lead her to another part of the club, grab her hand and say I want to show you something. Let's go outside for a smoke. Come on I want to show you my friends. Lets go see a movie. I want to go get something to eat. You ask for the date. You show leadership abilities.

Lets sit over here. Here is your chair. Lead her to the next step.

A woman doesn't want to have to make all the decisions. You take the pressure off her by deciding everything. Now she gets to agree or not and you can let her have her way some of the time. But you should be offering ideas first. Plan your dates ahead of time. Surprise her.

Show her you have things taken care of.

If you make the woman take the lead, you are messing up. Women want leaders. A real man.