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Chapter Ten - Second Dates

I know a lot of you haven't had many second dates. I was in the same boat for most of my life. You have to follow the rules, and the women wrote the book. Do what they want not what you think they want.

The kiss and touching during a first date are the key ingredients. No touching means no sexual tension. And that means no chemistry. Build that chemistry, you will feel it. Flirt and have fun and you will get second dates.

The second date is planned just like the first date. Find 2 or 3 interesting activities, and a place to eat or have drinks. Go check them out beforehand. Definitely plan for this date to wind up at your place or hers. You want to be able to be alone with her. And you will be all set.

This date is more of a real date, you should act like you are boyfriend/girlfriend more. Really get into deep rapport and find out who she is. Go as deep as possible and see how she thinks and what you like about her. Keep up the fun the whole time, but you are finding out more and more. Now she likes you and you like her so you have to escalate. More touching, more looking into her eyes.

When you get back home, just chill out for 10 minutes talking. Then sit next to her on the couch and move slowly into making out and kissing. It will lead to all kinds of good things. Just remember two steps forward and one step back. Don't rush, enjoy the whole evening. The more dates you go on the better you will get at it. Fun practice with no agenda. But it is your job as the man to lead her where you want to go.

Chapter Eleven - Escalating the interaction

There are some important steps with every new woman you meet. They are the same and must occur in a predictable manner. It is up to you to move the relationship forward, she will rarely do it for you. If she has to be the first one to touch or kiss, you are not the kind of guy she is looking for. It is supposed to just happen for her. She needs to always be able to put the blame on you, so she doesn't feel like a slut.

You are responsible for what happens, she only allows it to happen.

Some of the main steps are:

First words
First touch
Getting alone with her
Holding hands
Getting into her personal space
Touching her hair or face
Touching her legs
First Kiss
Making out
Getting naked
Sex

Follow these steps at her pace, as soon as she will let you. You have to be the one pushing things forward. If you go too far, just back up a step and continue. Don't get upset or mouthy. Take your time but keep trying. At the sex moment, she may say stop, that is ok, stop. Move back a step or two and slowly move back in again. There will be another time soon, if you can relax and let her back up a little. Without losing your cool. Don't push farther than she wants to go. Wait for tomorrow.