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Chapter Four- Practice, practice and more practice

If you really want to get good at something, you have to practice it. You don't read about skiing and then strap on skis and head down a steep mountain. You fall down for days on the bunny slope first. Slowly you pick it up and stop falling.

Dating attractive women is the same idea. You read something and then you go out and try it on a real warm blooded woman. See all the ideas in the world are useless until you practice with a woman. Women are not the same, each is different and will react in a certain way. There are variables or it could just be a bad day for her. Try things many times with many woman. Then you will learn what works well and what sometimes works.

This is hard to do when you first start working on it. Just like Surfing, you will fall off a hundred times. But if you don't practice, you will never learn a skill. You are building your confidence in picking up women, every time you go out there and talk to a woman. Chances are you will not meet your dream girl on the first night and if you did you would not be able to keep her anyway. This is fun practice, have no goals, just practice talking to and meeting new women.

You know that is your real problem. You haven't practiced enough, you have been sitting around night after night watching television or looking at porn. Admit it. You have to decide to change and get out of the house at least 3 nights a week, to build your social skills. This is the only way.

Chapter Five - What do women want

Women want fun and excitement in their lives as much as possible. That is why they go after bad boys with a vengeance. They can never have too much going on. They live for the guy who will add to their boring lives. And all women think they have boring lives unless they have a fun and exciting guy driving them crazy. Remember a girl loves to talk to her girlfriends, give her something to talk about.

You have to bring it to the table- A fun and interesting guy who is rarely boring is always welcome in her life. Don't be predictable, surprise her regularly. Keep her guessing, don't be confessing how much she means to you in the first 30 days. She wants emotions, she wants to worry and wonder.

How do you, the boring guy do this?? Don't be boring, start doing interesting and fun things in your life now. Get out the newspapers and look for fun and interesting things to do and go do them. This will get you out of the house meeting people and give you unlimited things to talk about. Try new things, do things you haven't had time to do yet. You need to have passions in life besides women. That makes you an interesting guy. Plus it will improve your social skills and get you lots of friends.

Staying in every night reading and playing on the computer will not help you one bit. Get out and do things you like to do. And be pro-active, don't wait for people to call you. Call them and invite them to go do something, anything fun. This is how you improve your status in life. You will be the fun guy. They will start inviting you to things and introducing you to people.

Don't be upset if a girl just wants to be friends. You should still hang out, she might introduce you to a wonderful girl. Her boyfriend might have an awesome sister. You never know. Be social and friendly with everyone who is nice to you. Having a few girl "friends" will really improve your success with other girls. You will get comfortable talking to girls and they will even help you get better.

Attitudes of winning players- This is the attitude you have to give off to women. They don't want players but they want guys who were players. They want to catch the player and keep him with their beauty and charms. They want to get the guy all the other girls couldnt keep. They are very catty and will steal another girls guy in a second. So you have to look and act like other girls are really after you. Act like a player but let her catch you.

The Look of a winner- You must give off appearances of being a winner, not a loser. Be secure in yourself, know what you want and how to get it. No kissing her ass. Make her earn your attention, you are interested but have doubts. You are just trying to find out more about her so you can make a decision.

You want to look like you are calm and relaxed. Just having a good time. Keep this game fun at all times. Don't be too serious. A key point is to not answer all her questions, keep some things secret and dish them out slowly and sparingly. Women love mystery and intrigue, make her curious to know more. Teasing is the way to be with a woman. Be a challenge and a guy who other women want.